Hoe do I get back my ex girlfriend, you ask. The answer is not as much of a mystery as you may think. Analyse one hundred breakups and what it would take to get those people back together, and you will see a pattern emerge. That pattern is she the "way" to get your ex girlfriend back. Let's get started.
The first step is to find the reason or cause of the breakup in the first place. Why did the breakup happen? Be careful when trying to answer this question. It's easy to get wrong. Let me give you an example.
Let's say you cheated on your girlfriend and that's why she left you. The easy answer to the question of what caused the breakup is that you cheated on her.
Unfortunately, this answer is wrong. The cheating didn't really cause the breakup. Answer this question: Why did you cheat on your girlfriend? You can change this question to address your specific situation. Perhaps you cheated on your girlfriend because she wasn't giving you enough attention. Okay, why wasn't she giving you enough attention? Keep digging with "why?" question until you can't dig any more. Once you get to the end, you should have the answer to what "really" caused the breakup.
Nest, you have to keep your cool. Do not be desperate. You may be saying to yourself, "I can get my ex girlfriend back if I text her one hundred times a day", but the truth is pestering her, and other behaviour like it, will only push her further away from you. Stay cool. A good way to achieve this is to not spend time alone. Hang out with friends as much as possible. While you are being cool and hanging back, you want to wait the right time(s) to arrange to meet with your ex girlfriend. Do not force this. Just wait for the right time.
How To Get Back My Ex Girlfriend - The Final Step
Once you are able to plan a harmless and pressure less meeting with your ex, you will be able to implement your plan for reigning the passion and desire in your relationship. Also, you will be able to initiate your trust-building and communication plan so your ex girlfriend will feel safe with you and trust you.
The first step is to find the reason or cause of the breakup in the first place. Why did the breakup happen? Be careful when trying to answer this question. It's easy to get wrong. Let me give you an example.
Let's say you cheated on your girlfriend and that's why she left you. The easy answer to the question of what caused the breakup is that you cheated on her.
Unfortunately, this answer is wrong. The cheating didn't really cause the breakup. Answer this question: Why did you cheat on your girlfriend? You can change this question to address your specific situation. Perhaps you cheated on your girlfriend because she wasn't giving you enough attention. Okay, why wasn't she giving you enough attention? Keep digging with "why?" question until you can't dig any more. Once you get to the end, you should have the answer to what "really" caused the breakup.
Nest, you have to keep your cool. Do not be desperate. You may be saying to yourself, "I can get my ex girlfriend back if I text her one hundred times a day", but the truth is pestering her, and other behaviour like it, will only push her further away from you. Stay cool. A good way to achieve this is to not spend time alone. Hang out with friends as much as possible. While you are being cool and hanging back, you want to wait the right time(s) to arrange to meet with your ex girlfriend. Do not force this. Just wait for the right time.
How To Get Back My Ex Girlfriend - The Final Step
Once you are able to plan a harmless and pressure less meeting with your ex, you will be able to implement your plan for reigning the passion and desire in your relationship. Also, you will be able to initiate your trust-building and communication plan so your ex girlfriend will feel safe with you and trust you.