Monday 30 May 2011

Tips To Save Marriage

Do you ever stress out at night wondering if your marriage will last and what you are going to do about it? have you ever wondered if all of your hard work and efforts that you have put into the marriage will just disappear into nothingness?


Here are some marriage saving tips:


1.  Don't ever show your partner that you are worried or panicking about the marriage. showing desperation will cause your signification other to feel overwhelmed and push him or her further away from you? Is this what you want? Even thought becoming panicky or worried is the most common thing to do, I would advise not to do so. Stay confident in all that you do and never display a side of a worrisome behavior. This will lead to a better result.


2.  Don't pleat with your partner. Pleading only causes your significant other to realize that he is great he is greater and higher emotional status than you and knowing this will also push him away further. Men and women like to have a relationship that is mutually equal and naturally balanced. If there is more weight on one end that the other, than the balance shifts and this may cause further arguments, frustrations and unsteady marriage.




3.  Allow them the space they need. You will be surprised how a long way this will take you. Allowing your partner the free space he or she needs, allows them to see the bigger picture and in time, he or she will come back to you in a more different perspective than they were previously.


4.  If your partner is aggressive do not lash out at him or her. Staying calm and in control at all times is an admirable quality that is equally displayed when your partner is a run. Showing him or her that you can stay in control goes a long way to show that you can yourself accordingly and effectively.


5.  Finally, compromise is key to a successful marriage. When two people compromise with each other it makes the world of a difference, let me tell you. Of course proper communication is key, although if compromise is established early than you can rest assure that the delights of life will effect and that you will understand that things can be worked out peacefully and sound.



Sunday 22 May 2011

Tips to Save a Relationship

There are so many tips to save a relationship online you often ask yourself where to look to get some effective results in your most current situation.

Many couples have asked me if they can actually turn their relationships around with useful tips that they can implement in their daily lives and my answer to theme is yes. Making up with the one you love doesn't have to be so hard.

A relationship is like a plant that needs daily water to sustain itself. If you take away the water, then the love and emotions that you once felt with your partner begin to diminish entirely. This is what most couple don't often realize.

Here hare some useful tips to save relationship from falling apart.

1. Stop blaming each other for actions that each other do. Pointing fingers will never settle an already troubled relationship.

2. Pay attention to each other. Listening is key in any relationship and I tell you now that if you start paying more attention to each other, better things will result from it. Everybody wants to be listened and paid attention to. So try it today.

3. Stop being so needy and clingy in your relationship. The more you do this, the more you can push your partner further away from you.

4. Don't pay attention to things that are not true. If someone told you something about your partner and you don't have all the facts then just let it go. They maybe trying to break you  up and cause more disturbances in your marriage. Get all the facts before your start to judge anybody from a simple hearsay.

5. Make sure you are giving your partner plenty of space so that they can come back to you rejuvenated and energizes to give you the attention that they need. Lets fact it, nobody wants be smothered and you will be surprised how effectively this works.

6. Factors which can help to sustain a long-term relationship:

*  Being realistic from the beginning and working on problems
*  Toleration of each other
*  Developing mutual interested and activities together
*  Sexual attraction
*  Use the 50/50 rule of a fair and balanced relationship
*  Equally shared ideals
*  The ability to negotiate and compromise
*  Both partners comfortable with the level or intimacy that they have



Saturday 14 May 2011

How to Handle the Pain Love Brings You

If you are in a healthy relationship, the hurt was unintentional. It is important to realize that your loved one didn't plan on causing you pain. Try to see the situation from their perspective. You should try to calm your emotions down, and then talk to them about what they were thinking, or why the did what they did, or said what they said. Be willing to see it their way. Once you hear them out, they will be more willing to hear you out. Explain how you perceived what they said or did, and why you felt hurt by it.

You might not be able to communicate this right away. You should wait until an appropriate time, when you are not clouded with emotion. This is easier said than done, but it can be at least be done. Waiting can help you avoid saying things that  you don't mean because you are hurt and angry. Get it off your chest by talking it out or writing a brief or email. Don't just hold a grudge, because it will only hurt you more.

Thursday 12 May 2011

Keep Love Alive

I do not know where love has gone out of our relationship? Are you also the one asking this question? Most of us find that there is no love after some years. Why does that happen? That happens because most of us show disinterest in happiness of our partner. Go back to your earlier days of wooing and recollect the kind of attention you used to shower on your partner. Looking at your present behavior, you will find that you are giving doing that and you will get love back in your relationship. As you pay attention you will find that your partner is also paying more attention to you.

Tuesday 10 May 2011

How To Be Safe On A First Date

1. Go out with a group. it's safe to have other people around for a first meeting. Bring along mutual friends. 

2. Meet at a public place. If you don't have any friends on common, make sure you're first date is somewhere with a lot of people around. Think of a movie theater, bowling alley, restaurant or amusement park.

3. Avoid having your date pick you up or drop you off at your house. It's not a good idea until you know the person better to give him your address.

4. Use your own vehicle to get around. This includes to and from the date, along with any additional stops you just both make. It;s isn't safe to ride alone in a car with someone you just met.

5. You're sending the message that the first date is for meeting and getting to know each other. It give you some control.

6. Tell a friend where you're going and who're meeting. Someone should always know where you are how to get a hold of you. Have your friend call while you're on the date to make sure you're okay.

Sunday 8 May 2011

Romantic Love Poem

How To Kiss
Author: Gabriel

How would I kiss You?
Let me describe the ways-

I would hold your gaze with mine
as I approach the corner of your mouth,
then softly kiss you there.

I would kiss your eyes, one by one,
with my finger tease your chest
and press closer into your warmth 
I would inhale the scent of your hair, 
drawing a drought of the you deeply
into my being, into my heart.

I would move to your ear and linger...
whispering your name with
the warmth of my breath, then softly kiss you there.

I would kiss, lightly, as a hush, 
your cheek, then very slowly
returning to your mouth, pause,
then brush it with my burning lips.

Then softly I would kiss you there,
press you closer into my warmth
into my being, into my heart
and savor the aching anticipation
that wells in throbs within,
the want of more of you...

Thursday 5 May 2011

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