Best Dating Advice

Index

1. How to make a great first impression on a date

2. How to dress for a first date-Women

3. How to dress for a first date-Men

4. How to be safe on a first date

5. How to be a good first date

 How To Make a Great First Impression On A Date 

1. Dress attractive but comfortably. Don't wear clothes that make you feel stiff or self-conscious. 

2. Be aware of your posture - it speak volumes about you. You want to appear alert and confident by sitting up straight.

3. Compliment your date. Don't just say 'I like your shirt.' Be sincere and notice something that he or she took time with.

4. Realize that you don't have to tell people how great you are. It's better to show them instead.

5. Be interested and interesting. Listen actively to what your date says. Ask questions and don't interrupt.

6. Enjoy yourself, no matter what. If you're easygoing and fun to be around and if you can roll with whatever comes your way, you can't help but make a great impression.

7. Thank the other person for date - always, without exception. Good manners will get you for.

 How To Dress For A First Date -Women 

1. Ask your date about the event: Will you need park clothes, beachwear, an urban dinner outfit or rock-climbing gear?

2. Aim for middle ground for date one. Neutral colors, classic style and great accessories are always comfortable, specially if you don't know your destination.

3. Assess your position. Will you convey "career," artistic,"dynamite" or "easy confidence"?

4. Decide what makes you feel pretty, sexy, confident or comfortable. Do you want to be more sexy than sedate, or do you want to look sophisticated? 

5. Choose your colors. That little black dress, silver jewelry and an exotic shawl could be stylish and sophisticated. Pastels, gingham or soft lines suggest softness. Tie-dye can be fun or whimsical.

6. Be yourself. If you're at ease with lower necklines and revealing clothes, go for it it feels appropriate.

 How To Dress For A First Date - Men 

1. Decide with your partner what tone you want to set for the event, and whether it is a formal, casual or specific event such as a swim party.

2. Make an honest impression and statement about your style and attitude at a casual dinner or first date.

3. Pick from the classic basics unless you have a specific side of yourself to express. For most guys, that means khakis, jeans or casual dress slacks.

4. Choose oxford button-down shirt in blue, white or patterns. They pair up well with most pants and are attractive without being fussy. They layer well over a T-shirt and under a sweater, too.

5. Show off those pecs in a knit shirt or T-shirt for comfort and versatility.

6. Wear a dress shirt and tie, with or without a sport coat, to convey your attention to detail and your civility while still being casual.

7. Decide on your footwear. Athletic shoes are accepted in most places but generally oxfords, boots or loafers look better for a date. Sandals can be clean-cut, counterculture or sporty.

8. Wear neutral colors if you want your conversation to do the talking.

How To Be Safe On A First Date

The first date is an opportunity to test the waters, get to know someone and see if there's any connection. First dates can be a interesting experience. Whether it ends up being a love story for the future children or the funniest story of all time, you need to remember the first dates throw you into intimate situations with strangers. Follow these steps to be safe on a first date.


Instructions


1. Go out with a group. it's safe to have other people around for a first meeting. Bring along mutual friends. 


2. Meet at a public place. If you don't have any friends on common, make sure you're first date is somewhere with a lot of people around. Think of a movie theater, bowling alley, restaurant or amusement park.


3. Avoid having your date pick you up or drop you off at your house. It's not a good idea until you know the person better to give him your address.


4. Use your own vehicle to get around. This includes to and from the date, along with any additional stops you just both make. It;s isn't safe to ride alone in a car with someone you just met.


5. You're sending the message that the first date is for meeting and getting to know each other. It give you some control.


6. Tell a friend where you're going and who're meeting. Someone should always know where you are how to get a hold of you. Have your friend call while you're on the date to make sure you're okay.

How To Be A Good First Date

Following these simple steps will ensure an enjoyable first date.

1. Keep your expectation low. You will be pleasantly surprised if the date goes well, and no disappointments if it doesn't. This works wonder for blind dates, internet dating and also curbs nervousness. 

2. Open-mind. If your date would like to switch venues or try a different cuisines, be agreeable. Now is not the time to assert your displeasure with his restaurant choice. After all, he is paying for this experience.

3.  Sincerity. No need to play games. There's nothing to lose on a first date. This is the time to let your date see the person your friend and family see. Opening the window just a peek allows him to determine if he'd like to get to know you. Don't overdo the compliments, or be too assertive.

4. Acceptance. accept your date for who he is. If you find you're not interested, be gracious of his time. Do not insult your date by offering to pay.

5. Listen. Practice active listening skills. Shake your head in agreement. Focus on your date and not the day's frustrations, or the laundry list of chores waiting at home.

6. Ask Questions. Ask clarifying questions to show you're listening. Keep the conversation light and friendly. The first date is not the time to determine if he's marriage material, a good father or have a heated debate about politics.

7. Smile. Keep a pleasant demeanor. Soften your eyes and allow the happiness to shine through. Create an inviting and comfortable environment for sharing communication. 


8. Make eye contact. Look up often when speaking and listening.
Do not stare in a confrontational way or make your date uncomfortable.


9. First. Subtle flirtation when appropriate is acceptable. Show your softer, sexier side by lowering your eyes and chin, tilting your head or trucking your hair behind your ears. make your date feel as if you're the only two in the room.


10. Less is more. Don't overdo the makeup, dress. if you know where you're going, dress appropriately (no short skirts and heels for a sporting event). Wear clothes that are flattering and comfortable., it's impossible to listen when all you can think about your aching feet inside those "killer" shoes.