When you're in a relationship, you need to do a few things to make sure the relationship stays strong. Communication is the key to any successful relationship, but sometimes, couples just aren't sure what real communication entails.
Communication with your boyfriend or husband means less talking and more listing. For instance, when your partner has a problem, it's temping to want to jump in and try to fix things. instead, just listen. Tell your partner things like, "That's awful," or "I understand." By simply being present, your partner will know that you're there for them.
Another thing that couples often do (to the detriment of the of the relationship) is argue badly. There actually is such thing as a good argument mean clear-headed and calm discussion that don't turn into a heated fight. If you're feeling angry about something, instead of screaming at your boyfriend or husband, try this tactic instead for better communication: "I feel really upset when this happens. How can we make it better? Avoid using the word "you" in any arguments. Instead, stick with "I" and "We" statements. This will make your partner less defensive and more likely to believe that the argument will lead to a resolution and compromise,
rather then deteriorate into a screaming match.
When striving for better communication with your partner, think about the things that you like to hear. Do you like to hear nagging and anger? Probably not. What's more likely to get your attention is rational conversation. If for example, your partner has a habit of forgetting to take out the garbage, instead of yelling "How could you forget again?" try saying something like, "I can't help but the trash is still here. Maybe we can work on this together. Want to take turns?" You'd be amazed at how a simple change in tone and words can make a huge difference when communication with your loved one.
If your boyfriend or husband is upset, there are a few things you can do to make sure he or she understands that you're listening and you're taking them seriously. One tried-and-true method is to repeat what they said, but paraphrase. For example, if your partner thinks you're not spending enough time with them, you can say, "Okay, what I'm hearing you say is that you miss me. I miss you, too. Let's try to spend more time together. I'm open to that." By not getting angry and instead showing your partner that you understand where they're coming from and want to move forward, you've turned what could be a negative experience into one that's positive for both of you.
Communication with your boyfriend or husband means less talking and more listing. For instance, when your partner has a problem, it's temping to want to jump in and try to fix things. instead, just listen. Tell your partner things like, "That's awful," or "I understand." By simply being present, your partner will know that you're there for them.
Another thing that couples often do (to the detriment of the of the relationship) is argue badly. There actually is such thing as a good argument mean clear-headed and calm discussion that don't turn into a heated fight. If you're feeling angry about something, instead of screaming at your boyfriend or husband, try this tactic instead for better communication: "I feel really upset when this happens. How can we make it better? Avoid using the word "you" in any arguments. Instead, stick with "I" and "We" statements. This will make your partner less defensive and more likely to believe that the argument will lead to a resolution and compromise,
rather then deteriorate into a screaming match.
When striving for better communication with your partner, think about the things that you like to hear. Do you like to hear nagging and anger? Probably not. What's more likely to get your attention is rational conversation. If for example, your partner has a habit of forgetting to take out the garbage, instead of yelling "How could you forget again?" try saying something like, "I can't help but the trash is still here. Maybe we can work on this together. Want to take turns?" You'd be amazed at how a simple change in tone and words can make a huge difference when communication with your loved one.
If your boyfriend or husband is upset, there are a few things you can do to make sure he or she understands that you're listening and you're taking them seriously. One tried-and-true method is to repeat what they said, but paraphrase. For example, if your partner thinks you're not spending enough time with them, you can say, "Okay, what I'm hearing you say is that you miss me. I miss you, too. Let's try to spend more time together. I'm open to that." By not getting angry and instead showing your partner that you understand where they're coming from and want to move forward, you've turned what could be a negative experience into one that's positive for both of you.
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