Sunday 22 May 2011

Tips to Save a Relationship

There are so many tips to save a relationship online you often ask yourself where to look to get some effective results in your most current situation.

Many couples have asked me if they can actually turn their relationships around with useful tips that they can implement in their daily lives and my answer to theme is yes. Making up with the one you love doesn't have to be so hard.

A relationship is like a plant that needs daily water to sustain itself. If you take away the water, then the love and emotions that you once felt with your partner begin to diminish entirely. This is what most couple don't often realize.

Here hare some useful tips to save relationship from falling apart.

1. Stop blaming each other for actions that each other do. Pointing fingers will never settle an already troubled relationship.

2. Pay attention to each other. Listening is key in any relationship and I tell you now that if you start paying more attention to each other, better things will result from it. Everybody wants to be listened and paid attention to. So try it today.

3. Stop being so needy and clingy in your relationship. The more you do this, the more you can push your partner further away from you.

4. Don't pay attention to things that are not true. If someone told you something about your partner and you don't have all the facts then just let it go. They maybe trying to break you  up and cause more disturbances in your marriage. Get all the facts before your start to judge anybody from a simple hearsay.

5. Make sure you are giving your partner plenty of space so that they can come back to you rejuvenated and energizes to give you the attention that they need. Lets fact it, nobody wants be smothered and you will be surprised how effectively this works.

6. Factors which can help to sustain a long-term relationship:

*  Being realistic from the beginning and working on problems
*  Toleration of each other
*  Developing mutual interested and activities together
*  Sexual attraction
*  Use the 50/50 rule of a fair and balanced relationship
*  Equally shared ideals
*  The ability to negotiate and compromise
*  Both partners comfortable with the level or intimacy that they have



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